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Queer Yes; Straight No James Duggan
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What's in a
word--Shakespeare has Hamlet ask? So, what's all this fuss over the word
"queer"?
I bring up the subject, not the "issue," because of emails that I
have received concerning the use of the word "queer."
One reader writes:
"All queers. The phrase is enough to make any one vomit. No
wonder the Gay Community has a rough time with that expression let
alone the straights."
Well,
the "gay community" does not have a rough time with this word, it is
only individuals. To them, I'd simply say--it's past time to get over it.
The word "queer" has been transformed from its pejorative past, now
embracing the totality of the homosexual (gay & lesbian), bisexual and
transgender people into one word, bringing together everyone into one united community.
If we wanted to be politically correct (but maybe a bit outdated), I guess we
could us the standard Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender, breaking it down
to either GLBT or LGBT, but our community is now so much more than a
four-letter acronym. Isn't it?
We could refer to ourselves as the Gay Community but that would leave
out too many of us--transgender is NOT gay, nor is it bisexual. Then there are
our lesbian sisters. Are they gay as well or are they homosexual women?
And what about those who are questioning? For them, we are told to just
add a Q to our GLBT/LGBT now making it GLBTQ/LGBTQ. Yet one more extended
acronym!
This issue is not isolated to QUEERtimes.
Homosexual, bisexual and transgender community centers across America are
struggling with this issue. How many letters do we need to add to the
acronym GLBT/LGBT for use to be totally inclusive in our self-description for
our community?
While we will always ready to embrace our queerness and never shun the use of
the term, we will also never refer to heterosexuals as straights.
The
term "straight" makes reference to the straight and narrow path of
moral correctness and of going straight or to correct one's behavior to live a
better life.
The notion that heterosexuals live straighter more normal lives than we queers
is ridiculous. In fact, I find the term "straight" as used to
describe heterosexuals far more offensive than the term queer.
As a gay man who is a member of the queer community, my life is as straight and
normal as any heterosexual I know.
To be clear, queers and heterosexuals are both straight. We are both as normal
as God has created us.
QUEERtimes offers no apologies to any queer or heterosexual who may be offended
by our position.
It's
now time to examine your personal feelings and how you choose to identity
yourselves with your homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual and transgender bothers
and sisters. Is "queer" really so bad?

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What It Looks Like From Here Thom Cardwell
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What
do you think about the longstanding and classic Archie Comics coming out of the closet? Next month artist/writer, Dan Parent, will introduce the first
openly gay character in the pages of Veronica.
Kevin Keller, tall, naturally wavy
thick blonde-haired, good-looking, the boy next door, will catch more than the
eye of Veronica when he arrives at opening day of school at Riverdale.
Editors
at Towleroad (August 30, 2010), the queer
online publication, caught up with Parent for an exclusive interview to find
out the origin of the creation of a gay character in the comic book series, the
motivation for his inclusion (is it just a way to sell more comic books as
they'll become inevitably an instant collectible among connoisseurs of gayalia)
and the ongoing debate about the mainstreaming of the gay culture into popular
culture. You really can't get much closer to popular culture than comic books
(remember even the Pop Art painters borrowed or were inspired by them!)
Here's
some excerpts of that revealing interview with Parent about Keller.
Towleroad: What sparked the idea of introducing a gay
character into the Archie Comics world?
Don Parent: It all started in an editorial meeting. I had
an idea about Veronica going bonkers over a guy who was gay, and the powers
that be liked it. It coincided with our desire to expand diversity in
Riverdale, so before long the idea became a reality.
T: How did you come up with the final visual
design of Kevin?
DP: Well, I tried to give him characteristics
that some of the other guys didn't have, like wavy hair. And there aren't many
blonde guys in this group either. He's good looking, but has to be able to
catch Veronica's eye.
T: How much did you think about stereotypes when
creating Kevin?
DP: I was aware of them. I didn't want him to be
clichéd, but I also didn't want to run in the other direction either. He's the
boy next door. He's just gay.
T: Were any gays or lesbians consulted during
the creation of Kevin?
DP: My gay friends liked where
we were going with the story. They felt that it was important to use the word,
"gay", and not skirt around the word. Of course, we used the word, thankfully,
without hesitation.
T: Is there talk of giving Kevin a romantic
interest?
DP: Right now, I'm still
getting Kevin through the door in Riverdale! He still has to start school and
meet a lot more of our cast of characters. And he does have friends from his hometown
that may be brought in.
Parent
also stated that the world of Archie was going to become more contemporary and
diverse as time goes on, expanding into different nationalities, faiths,
lifestyles, opening the door to everyone.
He
now feels that our society is becoming much more accepting of gays and that for
every negative criticism that the world of Archie has received from the public
upon hearing of the creation of Kevin Keller, there are, according to Parent, "a hundred positive ones."
He
boasted, too, that the higher ups at Archie
Comics are 100% behind the gay character and fully on board in responding
to any negative feedback from comic book readers.
"We
seem to be in a much more accepting place in society, which is a step forward
for every kid out there who may feel like an outsider," said Parent, "There's a
place for you in this world, including Riverdale!"
Personally,
I've never been a comic book fan, can't ever recall buying any when I was
growing up, but we should applaud this major and important decision from Archie
Comics.
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Thom's Table Thom Cardwell
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You've
gotta love it! PINOT Boutique, 227 Market Street, in Old City
Philadelphia, known for having the most unique accessories for wine lovers is
now selling wines in paint cans!
The
definite conversation pieces (perfect for gifts on all kinds of occasions), are
the attractively decorated "Paint Cans" that hold 3.5 liters of wine (the
equivalent of more than four bottles of wine), produced under a new partnership
with Chester's Paradocx Vineyard, and retail for
$34.99. "It's
very exciting, and a bit unusual, that we're able to sell wine now alongside
all of our wine accessories. It's a great development for . . . all of loyal
customers. Now PINOT's new slogan is 'Everything
Including the Grape,'" said Dan Soskin,
owner of PINOT Boutique. Soskin
said that the "Paint Cans" wine selections include "Whitewash," a white wine, "Red
Barn," a red wine, and "Pail Pink,"
a blush wine. "Fourteen
other wines from Paradocx are available by the bottle, can be purchased cold
and useful when diners are on their way to one of the city's many BYOB
restaurants or house parties," he pointed out. For
more information, call 215.627.WINE; or visit PinotBoutique.com
White Dog Café, 3420 Samson Street, in University
City, Philadelphia,
has become legendary for their unusual food events. The management will host
the last of their summer outdoor street parties, 7pm to 12 am, on September 10.
Cleverly
named "Dance of the Ripe Tomato,"
the special event will be a celebration of sustainable and humane farming
benefitting the Philadelphia Fair Food
Project. Live
music performances will be a central part of the evening's entertainment
including music by Joshua Popejoy,
from 7 to 9 pm, followed by dancing in the streets with live music featuring
the West Philadelphia Orchestra. There
will also be a special live performance of glow hopping and fire dancing
performed by Jen Web of Funtown Productions. Music
is free and open to the public. Guests must be 21 or over for the 9 pm dance party
where alcohol will be served. Tickets
are $35 that includes pig roast dinner, tax and gratuity and one draft beer,
per person. For
more information, call 215.386.9224; or visit whitedog.com
As
the summer winds down, area foodies will
be revving up for Center City
Restaurant Week
presented by TD Bank, being offered September 12-17 and 19-24, with
participating restaurants offering prix fixe three course lunches for $20 per
person and three course dinner for $35 per person, not including tax and
gratuity. The Prime Rib, 1701 Locust Street,
Center City, Philadelphia, off Rittenhouse Square, will be offering dinner only
with choice of first course of house salad, Caesar salad, roasted tomato soup
or feta, tomato and onion salad; second course of roasted prime rib of beef,
half rack of lamb, grilled Atlantic salmon, crab Imperial or roast chicken, and
vegetables served family style with all entrees; and dessert course choices of
either key lime pie, crème brulee or chocolate mousse pie.
For
more information, call 215.772.1700; or visit theprimerib.com
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What They Said and Did!
copyrighted 2010
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Once
you recognized Joseph
Gordon-Levitt as the beaten-up urban gay hustler in queer director
Gregg Araki's "Mysterious Skin," you knew immediately that the gifted,
intelligent, funny 29-year-old actor had come a long way from the brilliant
tour-de-force as the shaggy-haired kid in "3rd Rock from the Sun."
That was in 2004 and a lot more has happened and keeps happening nowadays in
Gordon-Levitt's career. He's now appearing in "Inception," directed by
Christopher Nolan ("The Dark Knight" and "Memento") who has only the highest
praise and appreciation of the young actor's genuineness to say about his
craft. Nolan told the editors of Details
(August, 2010) for the cover story on Gordon-Levitt: "He never loses his sense
of enthusiasm-truly boyish enthusiasm for the thing we're doing. When you work
on big movies, everybody gets jaded, myself included, and you have to remind
yourself. If we were 10 years old, this would be pretty damn exciting, Joe
never seems to forget that." The actor
whose interests range from Buddhism to Frederico Fellini to the French poets to
Russian clowns launched hitRECord.org, five years ago, to encourage creativity.
His 7,000 plus participants have thus far shared their images, songs, stories
and short films. "The most valiant thing
you can do as artist is inspire someone else to be creative," proudly
declared Gordon-Levitt. __________________________________________ Yes,
she got to attend the wedding of the season.
As Chelsea Clinton's mother-in-law, Marjorie Margolies, former member of Congress
for Pennsylvania, mother of 11 children, the first single woman in the country
to adopt a foreign child, and now head of the nonprofit, Women's Campaign
International, which is where all her energy, interest and passion is directed.
"I am convinced that in order to have a
world that works, we need more empowered women at the table worldwide," she
told Deborah Solomon (The New York Times Magazine, August 22, 2010). What does
Margolies think of Sarah Palin and the "mama grizzlies" (Palin's term) of the
large number of Republican women running for office this year? "Do I like that
these women don't agree with me? No. but as Bella Abzug once suggested: Women
will only be equal when we go into the booth and feel that we're voting for
female schlemiels the same way we're voting for male schlemiels." Of Palin, she observed: "She relates to a
certain kind of woman who feels neglected by politicians and talked-down to by
the type of women who may have gone to an elite college." __________________________________________ "I
just tend not relate to either gay or straight culture. That's where I'm at,
and it's really not a confusing place," stated writer Bret Easton Ellis told the
editors of Details (June/July, 2010) who, of course, as the novelist who penned
American Psycho, Less than Zero and his latest novel, Imperial Bedrooms, is
never at a loss for words or expressing his opinion-publicly. Of the rumors of
his bisexuality, Ellis was evasive as he always has been about his sexuality as
well as most of her personal life: "I
guess that it is the perception. I don't know if that's totally true. It seems
to be the narrative that people respond to most, and there is a desire to keep
that narrative going." 
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