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Same-sex Marriage Supporters James Duggan
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It's often said that politics makes strange
bedfellows, this seems to hold true for same-sex marriage. Some unlikely
support for same-sex marriage is now coming from the right.
First there was Ted Olsen, the conservative
defender of George W. Bush in the famous Bush v. Gore hearing before the U.S.
Supreme Court, now a champion for same-sex marriage in Perry v. Schwarzenegger,
the federal lawsuit filed in the United States District Court for the Northern
District of California challenging the federal constitutionality of Proposition
8.
Than there is Glenn Beck, the Right-Wing radio and
television talk show host. Beck admitted to Bill O'Reilly that he doesn't
think marriage should be a political issue.
Honestly,
I think we have bigger fish to fry," Beck said. "You can argue about
abortion or gay marriage or whatever all you want. The country is burning
down...I don't think marriage, that the government actually has anything to do
with...that is a religious right."
"Do
you believe gay marriage is a threat to the country in any way?" O'Reilly
asked.
"A
threat to the country? No, I don't," Beck said, laughing, adding
mockingly, "Will the gays come and get us?" No.
Now Elisabeth Hasselbeck, the conservative member
of the "View," has come out in support of same-sex marriage.
"I am not ultra-ultra-conservative on every
issue. I actually support gay marriage," she told Fancast. "I think
the gay marriage thing would definitely surprise people. I mean, for some
people, it will surprise them to the point that they won't want to hear it.
'No, that can't be, I really want to have this sort of idea of her in my head,'
so I sort of rain on their parade there.
Will Ann Coulter, the arch-conservative talking
head and author, be next? She has recently agreed to be a keynote speaker
at Homocon2010, the GoProud convention in New
York City on September 25. GoProud is a
conservative queer political organization that is to the right of the Log Cabin
Republicans. Coulter is now calling herself the "the right wing Judy
Garland!"
Only time will tell but there is a clear movement
nationally to accept same-sex marriage.
A recent CNN poll found that a narrow majority,
just over 50%, of Americans supported same-sex marriage. This is the first poll
of its kind to find majority support. According to the New York Times
(NYT) "that's a big change from 1996, when Congress passed the Defense of
Marriage Act. At that time, only 25 percent of Americans said that gay and
lesbian couples should have the right to marry."
Furthermore, the NYT states that "this trend will
continue. Nationally, a majority of people under age 30 support same-sex
marriage. And this is not because of overwhelming majorities found in more
liberal states that skew the national picture: our research shows that a
majority of young people in almost every state support it."
From the conservative right to the liberal left,
there is clearly a trend to support same-sex marriage. This should make us all
very happy as we continue on our road to equality.

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What It Looks Like From Here Thom Cardwell
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I've
got a thing about vampires. Always have. Always will. I mean that I'm not
mildly interested in vampires like it's a current trend (which it's peaking for
the last several years). No, it's more serious than that. To confess, I'm
rather obsessed with them.
My
obsession and enjoyment of vampires nowadays has expanded into the popular
images of vampires, in everything from "True
Blood" to "Twilight" (it's
actually been rekindled by both of these forms of entertainment) despite the
twisting of the myths and legends, even the customs and mores, in the modern
day storytelling (and retelling) of the vampires that appear, at least, in
these movies and the television series.
While
I'm accepting of these alterations (shall we attribute them to "poetic license"
for the writers involved?) I am still fascinated by and also adhere to the
classic vampire images, legends and traditions established by classic vampire
literature from Bram Stoker to Anne Rice.
This
is also true of the incredible and early history of film where the vampire also
ruled with silent film masterpieces like F.
W. Murneau's "Nosferatu" and Carl
Dreyer's "Vampyr" to the hookier black and white talkies, the
Hollywoodesque version of Count Dracula played by Bela Lugosi. Then there's the endless list of vampire films from
the campy B-movies to spoofs like "Andy
Warhol's Dracula" and Roman
Polanski's "The Fearless Vampire Killers" to a few decades leap to "Interview with a Vampire" (based upon
Rice's novel) and Francis Ford Coppola's
"Bram Stoker's Dracula" (based upon Stoker's seminal novel)."
At
the center of the vampire tradition are the themes of immortality, other
creatures beyond human beings, magic, the occult, Satanism, the defiance and
unexplainable against science and the natural order of things, the limits of
organized religion, sets of beliefs, love, death and blood as the life force.
There is such complexity of meanings, interpretations, cultural and social
implications, you can never lose your level of interest.
Yes,
I do have an opera cape, very a la the Count, and I've regularly dressed as the
Son of Satan, Son of the Devil (what
Dracula loosely translated from the Romanian means) for costume balls and, of
course, numerous Halloweens since the late 1960's. Frankly, I have to admit
that I've made a formidable Dracula each time I've donned the whole outfit down
to white gloves and ambassadorial sash and pendant (remember that we're talking
about an official title of Count). I can always easily go for Royalty.
And
I was known to wear the cape to class back in the days of my prep school years
as an English prof in New England where the
more progressive side of the academic administration allowed me to offer an
elective for the honors students, "Dracula
and Vampire Literature." We're talking the late 1970'
The
course was an instant success and immediately
ended up with a waiting list. The lucky 12 students enrolled got to study the
weighty, annotated version of Stoker's novel, an anthology of vampire stories
(including the vampires of Brooklyn to London),
and in Search of Dracula, a
comprehensive and richly illustrated history. The finale of the course was a
trip to then Communist Rumania to follow Vlad the Impaler (the real
life figure upon which Dracula is based) from his modest birthplace in the village of Sighisoara, through Transylvania to the Carpathian Mountains to an
impressive but crumbling in disrepair Dracula's
Castle.
While
the tour was completely fascinating and somewhat foreboding, it didn't satiate
my constant craving for vampires.
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Legal Queeries...Ask the Attorney John Adam Di Pietro
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Dear Attorney Di Pietro: I know that Pennsylvania does not recognize same-sex
marriage but is there something like a premarital agreement my partner and I
could execute since we are planning considerable financial expenditures and I
am bringing more to the relationship financially than my unemployed partner?
Scott S. Philadelphia, PA
Dear
Scott: You are absolutely correct that same-sex marriage and those rights that
flow from that legal status are currently not recognized in Pennsylvania. In order to protect the assets that you may
already own but intend to bring into a relationship, you would need to focus on
elements of general contract law. Some states such as California
and Massachusetts
have set up prototype "Prenuptial
Agreements" (Prenups) to deal with the status of their civil unions or
same-sex marriages.
Simply
put a premarital or prenuptial agreement is basically a contract between two
parties which specifies the property rights of each party. Typically, in
heterosexual marriages full disclosure is required as a prerequisite to
validity. In the same-sex setting, one would list all of their assets and
property as well as debts. Why might this be needed? First, it always is a good
idea to clarify financial rights and responsibilities. Usually in same-sex
circumstances people enter into co-habitation agreements to accomplish this if
they are generally on equal financial footing; however if one party owns more
than the other it may be wise to clarify the extent of that ownership.
Second,
"prenups" also may give protection in the area of debts. It may give
clarification and additional insulation to the party who may be living with a
partner who has accumulated large debts. Generally, because of contract law,
you will not be responsible for your partner's previous debts incurred in
his/her own name alone. Once a relationship is established however, and for
example when credit cards are used to purchase joint property like furniture,
or to pay joint household expenses, the lines of who really owns the debt could
be blurred. So it is always a good idea to enter into an agreement beforehand
which makes clear the parties responsibilities when it comes to previous debts,
as opposed to those debts incurred as a couple during the relationship.
A
third reason for making a prenup agreement is to cover the situation where you
may want to protect family or even your own children's interests. Many gay men
and women have children from previous relationships and may want to clarify and
delineate what property may belong to them while also making provisions for
their current partner (obviously a Last Will and Testament affords the best
method of asset/estate distribution). Finally, although we hate to think of breakups
in our relationships, one other important goal of a prenup is to avoid drama
when a split occurs. In the heterosexual world, property rights are governed by
divorce, separation and other statutes. Unless the courts grant same-sex
couples equal rights under these laws, one would need to clarify what happens
to property when a breakup occurs---by contract, hence a prenup agreement. In
order to avoid potential conflict, arguments, and perhaps costly litigation, it
is a good idea to spell out what should happen to joint property, joint debts,
and separately owned property brought into a relationship when that
relationship ends.
There
are other legal tools which may help same-sex couples protect their interests
and property rights. These include Co-habitation Agreements; Postnuptial or
Postmarital Agreements (agreements made during a relationship); Powers of
Attorney; and Last Wills and Testaments. Sometimes these documents may overlap
and intersect in purpose. In any event, the important thing to remember is to
be pro-active and to plan ahead. Someone once said, "A stitch in time saves
nine" when it comes to relationships and property rights, this old adage
couldn't be more relevant.
Submit you legal questions to Legal_Queeries@QUEERtimes.net
John
Adam Di Pietro is managing partner of Di Pietro Law Offices, East Norriton, Pennsylvania. He earned
his J.D. degree from the University of Notre Dame. In addition to being a civil
litigator for most of his career, Mr. Di Pietro also brings in excess of thirty
three years of experience in real estate, estate and municipal law to his
practice. He has served as solicitor for many municipalities and zoning and
planning boards; representing local governments, developers, general
contractors and financial institutions. He also served as underwriting counsel
for First American Title Insurance Company in its Philadelphia office.
He
has substantial experience in teaching land use, zoning, title and real estate
law courses and seminars for members of the Pennsylvania Bar and for various
professional organizations. He is a member of the Pennsylvania,
Montgomery County and Philadelphia Bar Associations
as well as several federal district courts.

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Thom's Travel World Thom Cardwell
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Just
when you thought that pride events were all over for this year, you have the
chance to begin the celebrations all over again as the Jersey City Lesbian &
Gay Outreach, Inc. hosts Jersey City Pride X: Standing Strong, Equality for All
on August 28. The 10th annual LGBT pride festival and march returns
to Exchange Place
in the city's downtown area. This year's lineup of entertainment will include: Tania Marrisa, Lady Clover Honey, J Fortino,
Athena Reich, Jason Antone and Ron B.
Admission is cheap at $5 per person to enter the fair grounds. And
the queer pride celebrations continue!
The Dallas
Pride Parade will return with the 2010 Alan Ross Texas Freedom Parade and Festival in lovely Lee Park
on September 19. This year's theme for the festivities in Dallas is One Heart, One world, One Pride. If
you're into friendly, strapping, queer Texans, this could be the perfect
three-day weekend to visit Dallas as they are many special events and parties
leading up to the parade and festival on Sunday.
What's
your stance on same-sex marriage? Or have you already taken the plunge and gotten
married to your "significant other" who is now officially your spouse? No
matter what your current relationship status, you may wish to attend the 7th New York City Wedding March to be held
at noon on September 26 in Foley
Square. Organizers request that you register to
become part of the march online. If you're single, I wonder if you might find Mr. Right or Ms. Right at
this event! You never know where and when you could meet the person of your
wishes, hopes and dreams! That's why love is so intriguing!
Billed
as the world's oldest and largest HIV/AIDS fundraiser, The White Party Week will return from
November 24 to 29 in Miami. This
year's theme will be Circque Du Mondefor the thousands of circuit party revelers. Organizers also announced that
this year will be "the final curtain" for special events at Vizcaya after a
26-year run. The official hotel for the event will be the Shelborne in South
Beach. This year's presenting
sponsor will be Tequila Herradura.
Proceeds from the annual special event will benefit Care Resource.
This is one of the parties worldwide not-to-be-missed! Enjoy and play safe!
It's
never too early to begin planning your escapes for next year! Organizers of Aspen Gay Ski Week 2011 have already
begun promoting their annual event to be held January 16-23. This year's theme
if the Wild, Wild West (well, the event
is, after all, in Colorado,
so I guess that the cowboy theme isn't so far-fetched). If you're fantasies
include queer wild, burly cowboys and handsome buffed circuit boy skiers, this
event could be heaven on earth! Blind Date Passes are on sale for only $199 per
person online or call 866.564.8398.
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What They Said and Did!
copyrighted 2010
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is Brion
Gysin you're probably going to ask? Curators at the New Museum of
Contemporary Art in New York City have decided to answer that question with
"Brion Gysin: Dream Machine"(now through
October 3), the first retrospective of the queer painter, poet, innovator,
mentor, bohemian and, above all, "total subversive" as New York (July 12, 2010)
referred to Gysin. Ironically, most
devotees of the arts might only know of his name in passing while the average
art lover might not have heard of him at all. Gysin was/is a huge figure in the
history of art of the 20th century. "Gysin was the artist's artist
among the Beats," writes Rachel Wolff, "the man who invented William S.
Burroughs's favorite writing technique-the cut-up, in which newspapers or other
printed materials are sliced and reassembled to make new connections-and is a
key figure in the development of postmodern literature, Kinetic art, street
art, spoken-word poetry, and experimental punk, rock, and pop." Gysin also
surrounded himself with the who's of the art scene world in New York city,
literally, from one decade to the next, befriending not only Burroughs but
Allen Ginsberg, Blondie, Keith Haring, Jean-Michel Basquiat, novelist Stewart
Meyer and John Giorno, the poet and artist who was Gysin's former lover (Gysin
died at 70 in 1996). Of Gysin, Burroughs stated, "I've never respected anybody more than Brion Gysin in my life!" ___________________________________________ It's
one of the hottest covers currently on the newsstand. There's so much testosterone
that it looks like an issue of a men's health magazine. Queer muscleman/health model Matt Schiermeier
and longtime boyfriend Cameron Earnheart grace the cover of Instinct
(July/August 2010). Schiemeier whose
face, biceps, triceps, six-pack abs, and body in general seems familiar to you
that's because he's been in Men's Health & Fitness , Muscle World and all
of their competitors. But the editors of
the queer lifestyle monthly present the handsome duo in a personal and
life-affirming profile as a committed couple living with HIV. Schiemeier has come out as HIV positive and
Earnheart as HIV negative and their challenges, struggles and loving support of
each other. It's an important public
statement as AIDS-phobia seems definitely to be on the rise. "The prejudice
surrounding AIDS exacts a social death that precedes the actual physical one,"
said Schiemeier, "That's a significant
reason why I want to stand here with Cameron and tell our story. He had the
strength to see through this, be with me and hold my hand." ___________________________________________ Who
doesn't love Laura
Linney? We first became
familiar with her as Mary Ann Singleton, the main character in the
award-winning and celebrated miniseries, "Tales of the City," where her
memorable performance remains exciting, entertaining and fresh like it just
premiered yesterday. She's a gay icon,
according to queer writer Armistead Maupin who created "Tales" and all its
sequels. Happily, she hasn't been
typecast as naïve, innocent and inexperienced with life and love, in other
words, a "naif" (The New York Times Magazine, august 11, 2010). Her career has developed and expanded as a
highly gifted and truly respected actress from "You Can Count on Me," "Kinsey,"
"The Savages" to "John Adams," to name a few.
She has taken chances, risks in her roles and none more daunting than
her role in Showtime's "The Big C." (The "C" stands for cancer.) "It amazing to me how delicate we are and how
strong we are," observed Linney, "What
people can survive and what they don't survive is shocking to me. Someone can
go to Iraq
and be blown to bits and survive. Someone can trip and fall on the street and
they die-that's that."
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