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Patriots All James Duggan
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Last week I spoke about doing our patriotic duty by
completing the census, especially as same-sex couples. This week I want
to talk about a patriot and others like him.
It was reported this week in "The Advocate", and
widely circulated on social networks, that Lt Dan
Choi, an advocate for the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell
(DADT), was recalled to Active Duty. But according to vetvoice.com
this is not true.
Choi, who was dismissed from duty with the intent
to discharge under DADT, is still a member of the New York National
Guard. His commanding officer, who continues to be supportive of Choi,
welcomed him to join his Guard unit for a "weekend for training on critical infantry
tasks with his Soldiers."
When I first read that Choi had been recalled to
active duty I became very skeptical about such reports, but even on Choi's
facebook page there were postings from his weekend of training.
However, the story got away from the reality with
people thinking the he was actually recalled to active duty.
Neither Choi, nor his National Guard Unit, were
recalled to active duty status. And to be clear, Choi, regardless of the
support of his commander and fellow soldiers, is still in line to be discharged
for violating DADT.
It should be noted, conversely, by his actions,
Choi's commanding officer has now become an activist for the repeal of DADT; by
welcoming an out (activist) soldier to train with his unit he himself became an
advocate for military equality. We wish this officer well!
Currently, the military claims it needs a whole
year to review how to implement the repeal of DADT but the reality is they
simply need to open their eyes and witness the reality that queer
servicemembers already serve our nation as patriots; ready to go to battle at a
moment's notice.
In a letter I received from Choi, he writes:
"Do not call any of us
quitters. Gay patriots are serving openly and honestly today. I am back with my
unit, drilling and preparing for a possible deployment. However, my discharge
is still pending, and any day I can still be fired under Don't Ask Don't Tell.
"While some might praise
the idea of 'better implementation' of the law, claiming that 'witch hunts,' 'jilted
lovers' or 'third party outings' are the worst part of DADT, we know that the
most dangerous and poisonous part of DADT is the fact that it forces
soldiers to live a lie."
As an ex-servicemember myself, I fully agree with Choi--of being queer in the
military and being forced to live a lie among so many people, people you
literally trust your life with.
If not for the lie, I would have been dishonorably
discharged. No person should be forced to serve under those conditions.
Choi reminds us that "we all have a responsibility
to honor our soldiers, and restore integrity by demanding the full repeal
of military discrimination. Do not accept a compromise: our
American values have been compromised for too long."
QUEERtimes stands with Lt. Dan
Choi, and other patriots, and request your help in delivering
over 500,000 signatures to Congress urging them to "act immediately to stop the
discharge of gay and lesbian soldiers as a result of the discriminatory 'Don't
Ask, Don't Tell' policy." And to "include repeal of 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' in
the upcoming defense authorization bill to ensure the policy is ended by Congress
as quickly as possible."
Click here to
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What It Looks Like From Here Thom Cardwell
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Despite the snowbound of which many of you
have been for a few days this week, life continues on in publishing this week's
QUEERtimes.
We haven't missed bringing you a single
issue in more than two and a half years so we're hoping that we'll help you
feel better, especially if you're severely suffering from cabin fever.
I mean what hasn't been canceled this week?
And Philadelphia still didn't have to close down
officially like our neighbors to the South, Atlantic City, Baltimore and Washington, D. C., and even the Diamond State
yesterday declared a "State of Emergency."
Weren't we all a little humbled by the fact
that no matter how technologically advanced and culturally sophisticated we've
become, Mother Nature can simply and powerfully rear her cruelest, coldest
head, and everything about our normal living comes to a sudden halt, whether
you live in an urban or rural environment, she takes command and there's no way
of stopping her.
But enough about the snow, I lived closely
with Mother Nature for 12 long snowy winters (that actually started in the fall
and ended close to springtime) so I hardly ever have to be humbled by her-but,
you, on the other hand.
On a kinder and definitely warmer note
(we're not just talking weather again either), bears (the queer human kind, not
polars) will be descending upon the International Bear Rendezvous (IBR
2010), organized by the Bears of San
Francisco, this weekend.
There's genuine excitement about the
premiere of "BEAR NATION,"
the latest documentary independent film, from queer director Malcolm Ingram whose pervious work, "Small Town Gay Bar" made quite an
impression at most of the queer film festivals across the country, including Philadelphia QFest .
"We are so excited to start our
journey with the film at such an important event to me, personally," said
Ingram who will be at IBR 2010. "Attending IBR in my early stages of coming out
showed me a community that I could identify with and helped me figure out where
I fit."
A long time "bear" identified Ingram for
"BEAR NATION" actually filmed across NorthAmerica and the United
Kingdom, wanting to capture "the growing
diversion of the gay community with the
sexualization of fat and hair.
What began as a personal journey into the
complexities of belonging to a subculture of a subculture for Ingram ended up
becoming "a furry odyssey of discovery" with a thoroughly thoughtful,
stylistic, and entertaining examination of the bear nation.
Organizers of "BEAR NATION" stated that
their presence would be felt beyond the premiere of the film itself at IBR 2010
with their own booth at the Vendor Maul
and BEAR NATION Hospitality Suite
with complimentary pizza, beer and t-shirt giveaways at the Parc 55 Hotel for
the entire weekend; a SModcast: The Live, Bi-curious Bear Edition" with
director Kevin Smith ("Zack and Miri
Make a Porno") and Ingram in attendance on February 13; and the announcement of
the BEAR NATION American Tour including World Premiere screening information,
dates and locations.
For
information on the film, visit BearNationMovie.com
For
information on IBR 2010, visit bosf.org/bearrendezvous
Don't
you love the diversity our queer community really represents? We perhaps have
more subcultures within a subculture than any in the history of the world.
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Out of the Box
A
Queer Explorer in Western Pennsylvania
Raeann Drew
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This
week I'm writing from afar. I have
traveled across the vast, mostly uninteresting Pennsylvania turnpike to deliver this
article to you from the other side of the state! Yes, your queer explorer has
descended into the unruly wilds that is rural Western
Pennsylvania.
While
I know the lay of the land and I'm able to successfully camouflage myself with
overzealous Steelers enthusiasm and bad grammar, I often do find myself feeling
like I'm on a safari when I voyage back to my homeland. The folks here are
exotic and strange; much of my time is spent observing them from the standpoint
of an amateur anthropologist.
I was
in the thick of a prime opportunity for observation when my studies, and the
fact that my driver's license expired about two weeks ago, landed me yesterday
at the local DMV. It seemed that on this particular Wednesday, every species of
western Pennsylvanians had converged on the hard plastic gray chairs of the waiting
room.
Seated
in front of me was the most interesting pack: a plump, childish looking woman
with two unkempt men with bushy, bedraggled beards, somewhat reminiscent of a
grimier version of Cheech and Chong (one walked with a cane and wore a dusty
ball cap with a marijuana leaf on it). The woman sat the two men down like
schoolchildren and plopped herself down directly in front of me. After some
squirming and complaining, the woman disappeared. When she returned, one of the
men asked her where she'd been. "I had to move my car, I was parked in the
handicapped spot. I told 'em I had a cripple with me but they said I had to
have 'at sticker. I ain't payin' $150 for 'at sticker!"
Next
thing I knew, a clean-cut, Supermom wandered in with her son and husband next.
Her son yanked a number and sat down. She carefully examined all the signs to
make sure he pulled the right one. After a five-minute in-depth investigation
that included stooping and squinting at forms and fine print, she was content
with his decision. She sat down next to her husband who had the shiny look of
an evening newscaster.
As the
only queer person in the room, I, too, was a strange creature to them. To my
right was a teenager getting his learner's permit who took an odd fascination
in me. He openly stared in awe, like I was the most exquisite being he'd ever
seen. After a good 45 minutes, I decided that he was secretly a lesbian trapped
in a boy's body, and he aspired to be like me some day. Twice I caught TV
family lady looking at me with a contemplative, sideways glance, attempting to dissect
me like the waiting room signage she had poured over.
I eventually made it
out alive and received the obligatory horrible driver's license picture that
we've all have whether we're white, queer, hetero, gender variant or not,
ethnic, poor, rich, old and young and that we all have come to recognize as a
symbol of advanced civilization in our society.
Despite the cliché, sometimes reality is surely much
stranger than fiction.
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Thom's Table on the Qt! Thom Cardwell copyright 2010
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How's
this for expressing your love to that special someone looking at breathtakingly
stunning panoramic views of Philadelphia
from the 50th floor while dining and being entertained?
The
city's own, critically-acclaimed singer Eddie
Bruce (who just returned from a highly successful, sold-out, appearance at
Michael Feinstein's in New York City) will perform his newest cabaret show, "Isn't It Romantic?" as part of an entire
special evening on Valentine's Day, Sunday, February 14, at the Top of the
Tower at 1717 Arch Street, Philadelphia, 50th Floor,
adjacent to Embassy Suites, at 18th
and the Benjamin Franklin Parkway, which has a special offer to "make it a
night" at $129 per room, in Philadelphia, enjoying the President's Day, Monday,
February 15, holiday, too!
The
Valentine's Day package will include a premium
open bar with hors d'oeuvres, starting at 4:30 p. m., gourmet dinner stations starting at 5 p. m., and then onto the
show, a fabulous evening of entertainment with Eddie Bruce in a intimate
cabaret concert with the Tom Adams Trio
and ending with a lavish coffee and dessert buffet while dancing to live music,
and underground on-site parking is included for the price of $214 per couple
plus tax.
A
popular singer and bandleader, Bruce has been getting raves from critics for
his singing and performance style. ("Eddie Bruce Triumphs" is the headline in a
recent review on talkinbroadway.com raving about his latest performance in New York.) Locally,
Bruce was the #1 box office attraction in the history of the Prince Music Theater's popular cabaret
in Philadelphia.
Bruce,
always consummate entertainer, released "Bruce on Bennett," last year to wide
audience approval.
The
original host of "Dancin' on Air" on
television, Bruce also served as radio host on WWDB-FM for eight years.
For
more information, call 215.567.8787; visit topofthetower.com
For
some romance, French-style, Bistrot La Minette, 623 South 6th
Street, Philadelphia, between South and Bainbridge Streets, where
chef/owner Peter Woolsey is celebrating Valentine's Day
for lovers, by offering their regular menu in addition what he calls some "romance specials" on February 12 and 13
and then culminating in a special dinner for diners to celebrate with their
someone special on February 14, from 5:30 to 10:30 p.m.
Highlights of Woolsey's special menu
will include: Mise en Bouche Velouté
des Crustacés / Lobster bisque, crayfish meat, cepes infusion, croutons,
crème fraîche, with 2 oz seared foie gras supplement; Foie gras frais de canard grillé / Pan-seared three-ounce piece of
duck liver, apple-raisin sauce, braised endive; Plats Principaux Homard Thermidor / 1 1/2 lb. Lobster
thermidor, sautéed mushrooms, spinach, pommes duchess; and Carré d'Agneau / Oven-roasted 10 oz
lamb rack, preserved lemon sauce, vegetable tart.
In addition
and perfect for chocolate lovers, Woolsey has created six delicious morsels,
made with exceptional Michel Cuizel
chocolate: chocolate ganache, raspberry ganache, peanut-butter ganache,
chocolate-dipped candied orange peel, rosemary "barrel", and a hazelnut
truffle. They're the perfect treat for honoring everyone from your mother and
sister to your partner and lover for $10 per box in lovely Valentine packing.
For more
information, call 215.925.8000; visit bistrotlaminette.com
For lovers of
wines and chocolate, there's a special afternoon event for Valentine's Day,
hosted by local celebrity sommelier and wine book author, Marnie Old ("Wine Secrets - Advice from
Sommeliers, Winemakers and Connoisseurs,"), who will offer a guided tasting
and master pairing class of wines and chocolates, February 13, 4:30-6:30 p. m.,
for $75 per person, all-inclusive, at Pinot
Boutique, 227 Market Street, in Old City Philadelphia.
Old, who has
a mastery of the sensory exploration of
pairing wine with chocolates, will share such trade secrets as why
chocolate can be paired with both dry and sweet wines, how to maximize your
odds of finding a perfect match, the ongoing war over whites or reds, sparkling
to fortified, and, most importantly, how thoroughly to enjoy both the decadent
and sensual tasting of wine and chocolate, food and drink in the most evocative
and romantic ways.
For more
information, call 215.627.9463; visit localwineevents.com
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What They Said and Did!
Thom Cardwell copyrighted 2010
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On Books!
Queer biographer and novelist William J. Mann has done it again. He has
written another biography of a Hollywood legend with "How To Be A Movie Star: Elizabeth Taylor in Hollywood." This isn't the first time that the
novelist of "The Men from the Boys," "Where the Boys Are," "All American Boy,"
"Men Who Love Men," and "Objects of
Desire," has taken a foray into the magic, legends and myths of the lives of
big names of Hollywood. Mann penned "Wisecracker," easily one of the best
biographies of William Haines, a
queer silent film star turned interior decorator to all his celebrity friends,
and about the queer British Oscar-winning ("Midnight Cowboy") film director John Schlesinger and even was bold
enough to tackle a biography of the iconic actress
Katherine Hepburn. But this isn't a
"tell all" book unless you're talking about "how to" as Mann approached differently
from anyone who has written at any length about the larger than life "Liz" (and
sometimes "Lizard," a nickname among her friends). Instead, for Mann, Taylor is to be taken
quite seriously and attributes her, almost single-handedly, with truly creating
the model of the "movie star." Calling Taylor "shrewd" frequently in the book, he
points out issues like her negotiations with her salary for "Cleopatra," where
she insisted upon being paid the first cool million dollars upfront, contributed to breaking down the notorious
Hayes Code with "Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf," and laid the groundwork for
today's current star system. Of Taylor,
he told journalist Bill Biss (Rage
Monthly, February 2010): "She
really helped create the template of stardom that we still have today. Where your
private life is just as important if not more important than what you do on
screen. She kind of created the business model too. She came out of the studio
system where they used to put actors under contract. Then with "Cleopatra," she
and her agents created this business model. She had very smart agents who said,
'How about you get a contract where you get a percentage of the box office?' In
a sense, it was changing the way Hollywood
did business. She was at the forefront of all that."
On Theater!
Sometimes, it seems, that the British are queerer than Americans. Or at least
they have a better handle on homosexuality than we do as a people and a
culture. Well, their history is much longer than ours, which may be one reason.
And they certainly have a lot more bisexuality in their history, among everyone
from the upper classes to the art and literary crowd. Probably, it's true among
more Royals than we'll ever know! Anyway, the current buzz in the theater world
in New York City
is centered on the much-anticipated opening next week of "The Pride" by Alexi Kaye Campbell. The play about male-to-male relationships is a two
character play, with two acts, set in different time frames in London. Straight British actors, Ben Whishaw and Hugh Dancy, play a gay writer and his relationship with a
married man in the first act that takes place in 1958. In the second act, they
play an unfaithful lover who is into not only sleeping around but into a whole
hosts of fetishes from Nazi role-playing, leather, rubber, bondage to simulated
rape, and his relationship with his monogamy-seeking ex-boyfriend. Editors (New York, February 1,
2010) spoke to the duo who even perform a sex scene on stage about playing
queer and their characters in "The Pride": "What connections did you make
between the show's two time periods?
'That the self-loathing in the fifties has perhaps, in some ways, remained and
informed some element of gay identity,' said Dancy. Of the sex junkie,
festish-laddened character, Whislaw said that he's facing issues "still very specifically about gayness. Or
his sexuality. [My character] can feel love for one person, and still have sex
with strangers in the park. It's a problem."
On Music!
Queer "American Idol's" Adam Lambert has never been afraid to be
cutting-edge. The 27-year-old "rock god," according to journalist Jenny Eliscu (Rolling Stone, November
26, 2009) didn't hesitate, naturally, to hold back any punches when talking
about his first album, "For Your Entertainment," described by her as "a retro-futuristic
dance-pop collection." "The vibe is a blend of old and new, to take a
classic-rock-sounding track and ask, 'How can we modernize this, how can we get
an electronic edge?,' " Lambert said, "I
want[ed] it to be a little bit over the top and tongue-in-cheek, and, at other times,
I want to do something vulnerable and real." When asked by Eliscu about the
criticism that surfaced online about the album cover "being too campy and too gay,"
Lambert responded: "But that's
what I was like on "Idol"! When I did 'Ring of Fire,' that was pretty camp, so
I don't understand why the cover is a surprise. People are forgetting me at my
wildest--with platform boots and rhinestones around my eyes." Known
also for his individual look and style, Lambert was asked about his Halloween
costume this past October that raised some further ire. "I walked over to a Hollywood
Boulevard costume shop and bought a pair of fangs
and creepy white contacts. I was a 'glampire'--that a vampire with full-on
fashion.' "
 
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